Yes, your reasoning of the crystal load capacitors is correct. They are double to the required load capacitance (excluding parasitics), as they connect in series from crystal perspective. Usually, it might take some tweaking by using a frequency counter to get the oscillation frequency closest to target.
You can measure SMD capacitors with usual LCR-meter, by using SMD tweezers. Or if that is not available, solder some suitable wires to the cap and then plug it into LCR meter (just be careful not to break the terminations).
Regards,
Janne