I looked into this about three or so years ago, and didn't have any luck, at least not for a volume product.
In the end, as well as trying some expensive (tens of dollars) units, I sourced some via aliexpress or similar for about $3 a pop. When they arrived they turned out to be ex-equipment: they worked, but were spec'd at 5v, that may not be a problem for you, but my device was battery powered and didn't have a 5v power domain, although they did work at 3.3v, just. They are also reasonably bulky.
I am fairly sure that almost all consumer grade rotary encoders use mechanical contacts.
One further thing I was looking for was heavy, reasonably large sized knobs that look like they're not form the 50s. Like cheap optical rotary encoders, nice looking large shiny knobs are hard to find (ooh er missus*).
* Widely used response to a double entendre in the UK.