It's best to run IBIS simulation of your traces if you want to be certain that design will work - you can find IBIS models for both CPU and memory modules on manufacturers' websites. Alternative approach is to just take reference design, but in this case you'd better replicate their layout as precisely as you can as little things matter (like relative positions of components, traces layout, stackup, etc.).
I've just looked at the schematic and PCB layout of Dual Lite SABRE board, and there they use 200 Ohm termination resistors placed just behind last memory IC in a chain. Honestly this is the first time I see such approach, but since the board works, I guess it's good in that case.
What I would've done in this situation is reproduce their reference design and then do some IBIS sims of resulting layout to see if it would work, and what kind of margin it would have.