The general convention is tie the center pin to positive, then switch the phases negative with open collector outputs,
as for flipping the phases, i believe you can get away with reversing the polarity of the coils in the second to reveres its direction, allowing them to run in parrellel
just be aware if the load is uneven and exceeds the holding torque of one of the steppers it may miss a step,
equally while moving at faster speeds you can drive the coils with a much higher voltage (current limited) to let them charge up much faster,