i agree with you sir, but may question is how do i calculate the reflected voltage?

Referring to the image above, you first need to know the forward voltage of your LED string at rated current. As an example, lets assume one with 50V, i.e. the voltage across the output capacitor and LED string averages 50V when operating normally. Next, scale this voltage by the turns ratio of your transformer. Again, let's assume a value of 3:1, i.e. 30 turns on the primary side with the FET switch, and 10 on the secondary with the LEDs (or some other equivalent ratio. So, the reflected voltage in this case is 150V.
Now, this isn't the voltage seen by the switch. You still need to add the bulk voltage on your input capacitor. For a mains operated device in the US, this will peak at 170V. Thus, the theoretical peak voltage across the FET is 170V + 150V = 320V. HOWEVER, this STILL doesn't include the effect of ringing due to the leakage inductance of the transformer and the parasitic capacitance of the mosfet, transformer, and the output diode. At worst, without any snubbing, this MORE THAN DOUBLE the peak voltage on the FET to above 640V!
Engineering products for the European market gets even uglier. It's not uncommon to use BJTs or FETs rated for 1kV or more.
2.) my transformer heats up to 60C what could have causing these heat? im using EFD25 Core, i want to lessen the heat dissipation any advice?
3.) same as for the Mosfet i'm also having heat problem i also want to lessen the heat i'm using a 7N60 Mosfet.
As already requested, in order to answer your second question, I need to know the material your core is made of, not just it's size. Also, a schematic with your current component values would really be helpful, especially for your third question.
By the way, 60C is nothing to be worried about. The converters I've worked on (60W Incandescent LED replacements) are designed to operate nominally above above 90C. The datasheets for ferrite materials reflect this trend. The permeability and loss parameters are optimized for high temperature operation, and actually under perform significantly at room temperature. Look at
this as an example. Note that the core loss parameters are specified at 100C.