I am going to have some more fun with this. I am now in space with 2 magnetic probes and 1 electron. The electron wizes past the first magnetic probe and measures a magnetic field around the electron. The second magnetic probe is moving with the electron and measures no magnetic field around the electron. Two identical magnetic probes yet one says magnetic field around the electron and the other says no magnetic field around the same electron. The only difference between the probes is one is moving with the electron and the other not. How can magnetism be real if the magnetic field magically disappears when you catch up to the electron ? The electric negative field , Coulomb force , of the electron is real as my movement relative to that field can not make it disappear. This is not true of a magnetic field as I can make it disappear by catching up the the electron. A magnetic or electric field in a vacuum is either real or not real in that vacuum. . In the case of a magnetic field does not seem to be real if it is only there when I move relative to a charge. I am open to counter arguments on this as I am not entirely sure I have it right.
Very good point, I wondered at this when first studying relativity. My understanding is that looking at the moving electrons
in a wire doesn't tell the whole story. The charged ions in the metal also count. The wire is electrically neutral because there are two currents, one of electrons and one of holes, with opposite charges and opposite velocities. The total current in the wire is the sum of both currents: since the charges are opposite, and the velocities are opposite, both add constructively and give the total intensity on the wire.
Mathematically, if N is the number of moving electrons, v their speed, and e the electron charge:
I (electrons) = e · N · v
I (holes) = -e · N · (-v) ) = I (electrons)
So, I (total) = I (electrons) + I (holes) = 2 · e · N · v
Now, if you are comoving with the electrons, they are at rest, but the holes move at twice the speed:
I (total comoving) = I (electrons comoving) + I (holes comoving ) = e · N · 0 + (-e) · N · (-2v) = 2 · e · N · v = I (total at rest)
That is, the current doesn't change. Maxwell's laws hold, after all.

Of course, matters would be different if you followed a beam of free electrons. In that case, if you comoved with the beam, you would experience a pure coulomb field from the beam, but no magnetic field.