Ouch, measuring such a wide range of capacitance with an error of only 0.1%, and this with just a few cheap parts and no specialized equipment? You seem to like the beach a bit too much.
A simple RC oscillator structure will not cut it. Unless maybe you can calibrate it properly AND very frequently (like between each measurement), because it will drift over time and temperature.
You could be a little better off with a very good signal generator (meaning very low distortion), generating a sine and make a simple RC filter with your unknown cap and a reference resistor, and then calculate the capacitance based on the attenuation between input and output, this with a precision multimeter in AC (don't use a scope for precise amplitude measurements, it's not the right tool for this at all).
A good sound card for the signal generation would work fairly well with frequencies in the audio range. Still, with a low or middle-end multimeter, you probably won't get enough precision in AC mode to get the precision you require on the capacitance evaluation.
One approach that may get you something in the 1% error range (maybe a bit lower if you can measure precisely the reference current source and the reference voltages) could be with a current source as attached. You'd measure the charging time between two known reference thresholds (which allows you not to worry about amplitude measurement precision, again a scope would not cut it for that). The time elapsed between the rising edges of the 2 comparators outputs (Tr2- Tr1) will allow you to compute the capacitance, and can be measured with a scope (which is an accurate instrument for time measurements) or a microcontroller. You need two fast and low offset comparators, the LT1720 would work. For discharging the cap, a manual switch with very low parasitic capacitance will work. A MOSFET would add parasitic capacitance and should be avoided. The TI REF200 current source ref. is great and not too expensive.
May look convoluted, but it's still simple and would be cheapish to build, need only a few parts and IMO be much more accurate than oscillator-based setups.