There are some standard parts. Hundreds in fact. But if none of them are quite right in your application, that's where your problem happens.
There are already four parameters to specify, just to even begin selecting a transformer: input voltage, power level, output voltage (secondary), and auxiliary (if any). And supply voltages might pick between 3.3V and 480V, power levels from 1W to hundreds, output 3.3V to 48V or more, and auxiliary 5 to 20V at low current. Thousands of possibilities, and that's not even including frequency range, aspect ratio (physical size and shape, tall and thin or short and wide?), topology (flyback, forward, resonant?), additional secondaries (multiply the choices by hundreds!) and more (snubber winding, esoteric things like saturable windings, etc.).
Tim