Hi ANTALIFE
I love your question. It is just the sort of thing that I get into a quandary about.
I am not going to work it out, because my brain is not functioning yet.
But here are some thoughts to consider.
The phase angle between a transistor(BJT) base and collector is 180 deg, as you rightly say.
But it in not correct to say that the phase angle across a CR network is always 60 degrees: the phase angle varies with frequency.
The capacitor connected between the BJT collector and base, as shown on the schematic, are what is physically fitted. But the vittual capacitance seen by the circuit is the value of the physical capacitor multiplied by the voltage gain (A) of the BJT stage.
A is worked out practically as follows: The value of a BJT internal emitter resistor (re) is 25/ie where re is in Ohms and ie is in mA. And, providing the BJT has a reasonable current gain (hFE), the A of a BJT is Rc/re, Rc being the external collector resistor. For a typical BJT, like a BC227, with an ie of 1ma and an Rc of 1k, A is 1000/25 = 40. For a lower conductance BJT, like a BC54x, the A may be a touch lower, say 30.