If you wind a few turns of insulated wire around a spark plug wire and connect each of the ends of this coil to a small diameter 75-ohm coax cable, you have in fact created a precision pulse transformer, a shielded hi-frequency pulse transformer secondary output that can be fed through a small capacitor to a BJT amplifier or to directly to a sensitive gate SCR to produce a known-amplitude pulse (that can be further integrated or fed to a one-shot MVB) to then have a clean conditioned signal to feed into your pulse frequency (tach) measuring circuitry.
On the other hand, as you suggest, if you only connect the inner conductor of the coax to one end of the coil, you will have a antenna type connection, a capacitive coupling that can also be used to feed a JFET or BJT transistor front-end to your tach.
Automotive smog test-centers in L.A., I have noticed, use a clothe pin shaped (two half-cylinders of copper, the circumference which is slightly smaller than the diameter of a sparkplug wire) clamp device (it's about two-inches long) to feed a coax connecting to the tach input of their equipment.
Keep in mind that a single spark plug discharge may yield several sparks (and so several pulses are fed to your tach) and so some RC integration or use of a one-shot or SCR may be required to keep your tach error free. Smog test equipment requires only a temporary connection so a capacitive mechanical clothes pin clamp is the practical way to go.