I would suggest that you ask in the Raspberry Pi forums directly. There you might get input from the developers / tech support directly. Taken from the documentation, you need a PSU capable of delivering 2.5A - are you sure you blew something, or is it possible the power supply you are using is to weak?
I do not know if there is any reverse voltage protection - usually one would have designed the board with "stupid" users in mind, but of course it might or might not be there. If there is no reverse voltage protection, you could have already blown the display interface bridge and replacing those VFBGA64 0.5mm packages is not the easiest job. Everything else is at least QFP.