Done a lot of work with this problem - and there are 2 issues conditions to be aware of:
1/ IF you ONLY want it for a single clean Turn-on no less than every 60 secs say, then the solution is simple -
Put a series resistor in-line with the mains, app the same resistance as the Primary. Then wire a Relay across it.
Have any sort of simple timer to switch ON the Relay after a few cycles. It's a common approach.
The wattage doesn't need to match the load, as it will EVER be on for a few cycles.
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2/ IF you want to INCLUDE brown-outs and drop-outs, ie 1-2mS > 20mS example, it becomes a LOT more difficult !
NOW, you need to make sure you do NOT switch back IN again, on the wrong state of the transformers last
magnetisation. ie was it a +ve cycle going -ve through 0V or vice-versa, or a +ve cycle going over the crest, both
+ve and -ve. This is trickier, and you need to use FETS / SCRS instead of a relay and track the AC waveform.
This condition is the far worst of the 2. If you want to pursue it, I can give you some pointers.