When your livelihood depends on selling new parts, it's not surprising that the advice often points in that direction.
I respectfully disagree. I've been experimenting with Lithium batteries for decades, and they are not "flamethrowers." They are quite safe, and require a lot of abuse and dumb luck to make them catch fire.
The issue is that if that's based on personal experience only, you have no idea of the real risks involved. There's not enough data from one person's experiments to say one way or another. It's like taking in a cup of water from the ocean and proclaiming that there is no fish out there.
In reality, after you ship a few million cells, you'll realize that some cells are flamethrowers without any discernible root cause. Some are flamethrowers due to unexpected use and edge cases that weren't accounted in the design, and quite a few are flamethrowers due to idiot users who don't respect the technology at all.
I've seen burned down cars in garages, house fires, vehicles just spewing out fire out of the pressure vents. In one case some dumb-ass left a hobby-grade RC unprotected pack in his EV while it was charging in his garage, and that pack started a fire. Guess what was blamed? The EV and the charger.
It's tiring to see people fuck around with this,
eventually find out from personal experience, and pull a surprise Pikachu face with a "but it's never happened before, so it must not be my fault". Feel free to ignore all the data that is available and learn from your own mistakes instead of other people's.