Sorry for the delay, I was moving.
Congratulations, you are the fist person in ten years that has viewed power point water heating as a diversion problem.
That is a really good first attempt at a water heater control. I see a couple technical issues that make this a work in progress that cannot be recommended in the current state. In the solar world the standard is better than nothing. On an electronics forum I like to think our standards are higher. Even working 99.99% of the time isn't good enough when adding a couple components is all it takes.
My big concern is that after 3/4 power begins to be lost. That is something I can't accept. This happens when the reset time becomes longer than the recharge time of the capacitor bank. I've worked a lot with the IR2153 which is about the same architecture. A soft reset is at 1/6Vcc and a hard reset like you do takes even longer. My initial design forced a soft reset and that didn't work well enough. Ended up doing a dual timing resistor arrangement.
My first 2153 design was with a 300W inverter board about 8 years ago. Thought this would be the easiest build with solar people who had little talent. It gave them a good start with a premade board for $7. Voltage sensing was with a TL431. Pictured is the SG3525 board, you never knew which board they would send you and clearances were terrible. Nobody could ever complete the project.
The SG3525 makes a good water heater with deadtime added. Any OLD non microprocessor MSW inverter has this chip. Change two pins and you have a great water heater with a nice case. No need to invent anything.
I did a dedicated board with a IR2153 single ended output with arc interrupt and sent a few out. It worked well and that chip can make an interesting two heater with priority. I abandoned that design because half the 2153 chips out there are fake and don't do the data sheet shutdown as they should. Surprised you were from Romania. In the US I can get any part. Even Canada has trouble with part access. I think your chosen chip is too exotic for international use. I prefer to use totally jellybean parts. Learned an important lesson, never get involved with solar people.
My advice is keep it simple for the dummies. I added simple outdoor temperature sensing requiring only seasonal pot adjustments. H bridge is nice for small point of use tanks, but single ended is cheaper and easier. For voltages around 100V, turn the controller into a shunt regulator with a resistor across thermostat. Then maximum switched voltage is less than 30V, Voc - Vmpp which any switch can take.
Anyway, water heater controllers can be made out of almost anything. I have done dozens of designs, each has some shortfall. My favorite is a LM358 design. Only ten parts, delt V of 3%, no noise and performs flawlessly. The extra slow slew rare of the 358 filters out noise.
I run three water heaters off the same array in parallel with a charge controller. Each has a different priority based on voltage. It is an amazing system!
You should isolate with a diode. Electrons always know what they are doing. It is a little cavalier to tell someone to try it without and see what happens. A large capacitor bank can do a lot of damage to outside components. I don't do it with one of my controllers but it is isolated being 150 feet away with #12 wire or less. I'll be installing a diode as it does mess with things.
Third picture is the Polish ACTii which is MPPT but never stops hunting and goes all over the place with the poor delta V.