Good news, The relays are clicking
I'm so happy right now, I can't stop smiling.
First time I heard them I was sure something blew up, lol

Just need to wait for the inductors from Mouser to get delivered.
Thank you very much for the help bdunham7 and MarkL!
Not only did you guys save me time, but also my sanity, again thank you.
EDIT:
The power on rod/bar is just a mm or two above the ic, didn't think about that