Found myself accidentally just hitting the unreadreplies URL in my browser here (muscle memory!!!) while sorting some shit out so figured I better post a reply... Household has had one lying cheating witch evicted. Kids remain. I shall leave my explanation of the problems at that as this is my escape hatch really at the moment.
To quote Cave Johnson: "When life gives you lemons, don't make lemonade. Make life take the lemons back! Get mad! I don't want your damn lemons! What am I supposed to do with these?! Demand to see life's manager! Make life rue the day it thought it could give CAVE JOHNSON LEMONS! DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM?! I'm the man who's GONNA BURN YOUR HOUSE DOWN! WITH THE LEMONS! I'm gonna get my engineers to invent a combustible lemon that BURNS YOUR HOUSE DOWN!"
On a positive note the 2235 multiplier and the stuff from RS arrived but I fear if I wield a soldering iron for a couple of weeks I might insert it in someone.
Anyway back to getting nits out of the kids post-school
I've been away from the computer all day and just switched on to do a quick catch up on everything and I'm so sorry to hear of your woes as in deed we all are here. I can sympathise with you here, I had to do the same thing with my first Mrs 40 years ago, witch was having an affair with my bloody apprentice of all people!
Do what you have to do to get through this, watch your bank account, I closed mine down and re-opened another in my name only before anything could be withdrawn, change all locks etc to both house and car ASAP.
Take good care of yourself and the kids, they don't deserve to suffer. If there's anything I do to help, just PM me, even if it is just to have a chat and get things off your chest in private, don't hesitate, I know from my own personal experience it does help a lot.