figure 2 of the datasheet you linked has Vgs of 4v having Rdson of 2.5 ohms at ~ 250 mA, so estimating it i get 3.3v will have resistance of 2.5 ohms at only 200mA of drain current.
I don't understand how you are trying to estimate anything.
If you see (at figure 2) the distance between line for 4.5V and for 4V you can expect 3.3V line being totally out of this chart.
Than this chart is TYPICAL.
As typical Vgs th is 2.1V and max is 3V to get characteristics for device having max Vgs th you should read this chart as each Vgs value would be 0.9V higher than written at figure.
you are correct, i did not estimate 3.3v correctly. somehow i saw 4v and did not focus on the next line which is 4.5v. still what confuses me is that there is no 3.3v curve or any reliable info besides the VGs table row showing 3v max.
but even if taking figure 2 with 3.3v it will be allowing very little current, mostly not reliable at all.
When you design anything you should always think of worst case. Of course if you want to do only one device you can measure 10 transistors to select two with lowest Vgs th and they will be working for you.
the issue here is i want small through hole package, generic cheap part, and available from different manufacturers. this kinda limits the choices.
i designed a device which has different types of mosfets for different power functions, they performed fantastically because selection wasn't limited by this, but rather smt and soldered by pcb assembler.
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thus, 7000 and 7002 won't do the job. my previous suggestions seemed not very suitable too.
do you have other n-mosfet suggestions which comply with the requirements? or reverting back to 2n2222 with 1k at base and 100k pulldown is the choice?