This has spread to the real physical world. People don't say, "Hi, how you doing?" to strangers. People don't stop to talk to strangers anymore. People expect others to be confrontational or polarised against them because that is what social media taught them.
In the younger generations the simple ability to "behave" in public has been deminishing.
While reading this brain’s response was “but in here (…),” followed with both disagreement and agreement! So here are all the three aspects.
… but in here:Here’s an ASCII art approximation of a typical city bus of people in Warsaw:
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`-O------------+-O-'Outside rural populations, in particular older ones, I can’t recall seeing expressions other than :| and :( through my entire life. If it’s not people walking dogs, in cities there is close to zero interaction.
(1) No “hello” in common corridors, unless some kid says “good day” that to an old person. No talking in stores or waiting queues, nothing. Just robots (robitniks?

) moving back and forth, from and into their dwelling holes and workplaces. Saying “hello” to a stranger may even feel like trespassing social norms, and a random person talking to you on a tram without a particular goal may be suspicious, in some cases received as aggression. I know it differs by region in Poland, but only a bit compared to the full scale of interactions possible.
So in here I don’t see the “they don’t say ‘hi’ anymore” trend. It’s simply the norm.
… agreement:I can’t agree more with the 1995–2010 group missing basic skills in social interaction. It’s not completely new and it’s not universal, but compared to older generations, including my own around the same age, the shift is hard to miss. Yes, any non-positive reaction is considered an act of aggression, everything is black-and-white, details and depth don’t exist. Forget about social norms. Not because the group rejects them. That I would not whine about. It rather feels like the mere concept is absent and any rebel-like or naïve-cynical responses are merely a defense mechanism masking it.
I’ll not judge the general behavior. These things change from generation to generation. Even Romans both whined about it, and complained about Romans whining about it. Time flows, we have to accept the culture changes. And that we tend to paint ourselves as much better than we were at their age.
However, on a bit objective side, there are some behaviors and reactions we may have valued, but which are indeed missing. I’ll not say if it’s good or bad. But the change itself may be seen as factual and that has some cause. I’ll not blame social media for that. I’ll blame parents and the society. That is: I’ll blame our generation. These reactions aren’t missing because Facebook or TikTok magically sucked them out youth’s brains. Similar to like playing GTA will never make a person get into a car and driver over pedestrians. Or how playing FPS games doesn’t make one grab a gun and do a school shooting. These reactions and behaviors were never put there in the first place. If young people don’t know how to say “sorry” while bumping into sombody, or that they should help a person in distress, or how to react to common interactions, it’s because we failed to give them the correct examples.
… disagree:Let me share a few things.
- 10% of Polish youth actively avoids internet,(2) and we see anti-smartphone trends in western Europe and North America.
- If I hear any serious, quality conversation about current politics in public transport, it’s 15–25 yos.
- 18–30 yo voters remain strongly anti-establishment, as they have been in past generations.
- I see an increase in activism among youth in here. Ranging from protests, volunteering, to charity. And they fluently use current tools to achieve that.(3) That has been in decline since 2010.
- Polish goth community has been shrinking rapidly until just before Covid, and the metal concertgoers were getting old. But around 2018–2019 the trend changed. I do see more and more young people seeking actual human interaction and something beyond scrolling goop content.
- Catholic media report increase in younger people interested the religion. I’m aware these are rather panic attempts to show the church is not dead yet, but in the end these young people are in fact there and seeking spirituality.
(1) I know that to many Polish people that may sound outrageously inaccurate. Calibrate your scale first using other locations and cultures. I didn’t realize something is off until I learned the full spectrum.
(2) Krajewski, Kurz, Lewicki, Frąckowiak “Aktywni i (nie)obecni” (NCK, 2026)
(3) And regarding effectiveness, let’s just say that this year a YouTube influencer from Poland collected over 292M PLN ($77M, 67M €) in a single live stream, followed by three continuous live fundraisers in a row amassing over 15M PLN ($3.9M, 3.4M €) to sponsor treatment for 3 children. He beaten the biggest charity organisation in Poland,
WOŚP.