In the past 1 month at my work I have been subjected to to events turning from good to the worst, all due to a manipulative coworker, who has been at the company for about 10 months. It all started with him talking to management, that we need a structural change. Management came back with the idea, that I would be placed as head of hardware, while he would be responsible for firmware, we should come up with a plan, and discuss in a few weeks. This is when the attacks started.
- First the two of us sit down, and had calm and reasonable conversations for hours about the planning. He was non confrontational, friendly, cooperative.
- Then, they singled out a snarky comment (to management) I made against someone else and turned into a full blown deal, where I have personally attacked them, and created a toxic work environment. I've talked to the guy to whom I made the comment, apologized, and he didn't mind it in the first place.
- He recruited to his cause another firmware engineer who just introduced that he is leaving the company, and apparently named one of the reason for leaving is me.
- He told management that I was disrespecting them behind their backs. No specifics.
- After this I had to sit down with management, they are informed me about this and told me that my behavior is unacceptable, listing what I did. I felt like I was gaslighted.
- Few weeks passed, I did the benefit of the doubt that it was a one time event. Cooperated with him planning the new procedures about the engineering team.
- I had to whistle blow. Found a nonconformity with a production batch, that will cost the company reputation and a lot of money to fix. I escalated the issue internally. Recall, informing a Notified Body, investigation what happened.
- Then yesterday, he singled out a meeting from a few weeks ago. I told to the meeting attendees that some technical aspect for a new product has to be in a certain way, because we certified it that way. Recertification would be to lengthy and expensive, and we wouldn't be able to fulfill the lead time for the customer. You know just stating facts. This was presented that I'm non-cooperating, I raised my voice (I didn't) and acted threatening way (I didn't). He told the event to management right in front of me, deliberately left out that I was stating the issue due to the certification, which was a blatant lie. Management told me that it was the last straw, I cannot do teamwork.
- He told management right in front of me, that the original talks about the promotion of the two of us, I was non cooperative, non-constructive. They withdraw their proposal for promotion, now I'm reporting to my manipulative college, who is now head of engineering, effective immediately.
- I couldn't defend myself on this meeting yesterday, because apparently I'm too daft to even see what's happening. Which was more gaslighting.
- He needs to be on meeting with him and tell me when I'm difficult, because that's the only way.
- Apparently now I cannot even be trusted with phone calls to external parties, where one of my managers needs to sit in.
- And I'm on official notice probation.
I'm not prepared for the type of person, who smiles when having a talk with you, and then turns around and lies to management about the same event. I feel like a fool for not seeing this earlier. Now I have to report to him, so all he needs to do to get rid of me, is lie a few times that I'm difficult and I'm fired. I think that's his next move. I don't know how to trust any conversation with my direct boss now, because he has been using lies, omissions and blowing things out of proportions, against me.
On the other hand, there is no replacement for me at the company, and it would cost them seriously a lot of opportunity cost to let me go. That's probably the only reason I'm still there. And maybe because they know I could sue them for wrongful termination, due to the whistle blowing.