It is like designing a complicated electronics item. You can't always be 100% perfect, in all aspects of a design.
It's much more difficult than that. We are dealing with human beings here, and one thing these threads demonstrate is that even extremely intelligent people can still act like dumfux.
Also, at least some, talk about at least a minority of posters here, being at least slightly neuro-diverse/autistic/ADHD etc. Which means, that it is much harder, for them to correctly read other peoples emotions.
Further compounded, by the fact, we (usually) can't see or hear, each other, which tends to mean, a lot of the body-language, and possibly other emotional cues, are much, much harder to read and notice.
There does seem to be more arguments, in threads (not necessarily in a pleasant or technically helpful way), compared to many years ago.
But on the other hand, it can help the technical discussion, follow its course, so not always a bad thing.
What amazes me about this forum. Is how relatively few (in ratio, compared to how many responses/pages the thread can end up having), threads we have (relatively speaking, even though, it is a lot, compared to many things). Verses, how many responses, it can receive, if popular.
Then when someone asks, something. A huge number of posters, can (often helpfully), pile in with their views and answers, on the problem. Even long after the original question/problem has been resolved.
I.e. It is a bit like we have a huge shortage of good/interesting, well described, thread starting questions/problems/challenges, relative to the number of people (users), who mostly just reply (often helpfully), to threads.
But (as a human), it could be as much my perception, rather than the reality, of what happens, on the forum. E.g. I am noticing, the popular threads, that get a huge number of responses, on the list of recent posts, on the front page of the forum.
Rather than noticing the threads, which get little attention, and gradually fall out of view.