I'm looking for stepper motors and controller if available capable of 750W of power and up to 12'000rpm @ 28V. Is this something that can be obtained easily or do they tend to be bespoke made ?. We don't need many so having stuff made is a bit of a non starter. Potentially we could look at a controller that will bump the voltage up say 2x if it's customed made or available in order to get what we want.
Can anyone recommend any particular manufacturer / supplier ?
It is not something you can get at all, never mind easy. A stepper like that is not obtainable for love or money. Nor would it make any sense or be in any way the right choice for such requirements. Steppers are generally used in low performance positioning applications and similar. And in any case, 28V would not be nearly enough to force feed a stepper to the astronomical step rates required for such a shaft speed.
The real killer is the low voltage. Cetain kinds of brushed DC motors can do RPM like that on such a low voltage, but then you might be against the reliability requirement. If it "really, really" must not fail, then your best option is a 3 phase induction motor or AC servo. Only AC servos generally do max 3000 or in extreme cases 6000 RPM and induction motors no more than 3000 or 3600 RPM. But insert a 200 Hz capable inverter drive into the equation and you can do your 12 kRPM with the right motor. Unfortunately it won't do it with 28V.
What you need to do is put your requirements in priority order. Fulfilling all of them could become awfully expensive, but fulfilling the most important 50 to 80% could be manageable.
Others have included useful links to mfgs that make motors in the categories i mentioned above. The solution, if any, will be somewhere in that bracket