Finally I had time to investigate further into this scopemeter.
First of all, the SPI flash is only used for data storage (mass storage USB mode), nothing of value is on it. They did not even bother to connect it via quad-SPI...
My assumption about the ADC being an MXT2088 (AD9288 clone) seems to be correct. All the signals measured are located there, where they should be according to the datasheet.
So this scopemeter has only 100MSPS in normal mode (verified the 100MHz clock on the ENC pins with a real scope

), the high speed mode is overclocking the ADC to 140MHz (MCU fmax/2)
I was wondering the whole time, how they got the advertised amount of data into an MCU with an fmax of 280MHz without using an FPGA. Well they did not... It is probably even sampling the two channels alternating, but did not bother to check this, as the 100MSPS is already a dealbreaker for me (bought it for measuring high-ish speed RS485 comms waveforms in the field)
Just another datapoint: when running at 100MSPS, the ADC is running 100 times a second with 100MHz bursts, so max 100 wafeforms/s, if the sampling is alternating, then 50 wfrms/s.
If there is interest, we could still make an open source firmware from scratch for this meter, but nobody knows how long this meter will be on the market. As already mentioned here, chinese manufacturers are quick to abandon products...
Since there are no magic tricks used to get 280MSPS / channel of data into the MCU here, I dont really care about the stock firmware anymore, and the PCB is simple enough to reverse...
Triggering is also only in software. With the low waveform/s count, I could set up the scopemeter with an AWG in a way it never triggered. I guess I got, what I paid for.
Edit: high speed mode clock measured