Current cannot enter and exit a single terminal without an equal and opposite current appearing elsewhere.
Only if you are talking about an electric circuit, in the context where Kirchhoff's current law applies. Physically, current is just the rate of net charge flowing through some cross section.
Consider an ESD event, for example. Say, two hollow conductive spheres in vacuum with different charges coming into contact.
At the contact point a current will flow until the charge density across the entire conductive surface has equalized. There is only this single current.
For electric and electronic circuits, we apply a different model to describe systems involving non-static electricity, specifically Kirchhoff's circuit laws. To remind everyone,
- The algebraic sum of currents in a network of conductors meeting at a point is zero.
- The directed sum of the potential differences (voltages) around any closed loop is zero.
These only apply to circuits (and not to e.g. ESD events), and at frequencies where the wavelength is much longer than the circuit length. Beyond that, one has to go directly to Maxwell–Heaviside equations describing classical electromagnetism. To properly describe transmission lines, we apply telegrapher's equations (transmission line model); and at even higher frequencies, waveguides (again based on Maxwell–Heaviside equations).
Your use of the term current is fundamentally wrong.
If you look at any physics textbook or even the Art of Electronics, you'll see they use "current" with the exact same definition I have.
I used the wrong model and approach, the electrostatic one, instead of electric circuit models. Yes, that was stupid of me, and a fundamental error, but one of applying the wrong model to the problem at hand, not a "clever word game" or "reframing".