It seems to be lost on some people that language is a tool for communication and words are like buckets that can be used to transfer a message. The words themselves are only a vehicle, what matters is the message behind them. There is this very strange concept recently that a person is somehow responsible for how another person may interpret what they say, a concept that completely falls apart under scrutiny when we acknowledge that humans are not telepathic beings and there is some inherent ambiguity in language itself. It is totally futile to try to ensure that another person will never read malice into something that was said or that a totally innocent word will not trigger some kind of PTSD in another person by way of association. It is entirely the responsibility of the individual to seek whatever form of therapy they require in order to deal with their PTSD rather than expecting the whole world to alter their vocabulary to appease that individual. There is a point in life where one has seen it play out enough times to know just how futile it is, because it absolutely does not end, ever. If you manage to ban some word, another word immediately takes its place, because the problem was never the word itself in the first place. If someone thinks I'm an asshole because I refuse to make what they see as a trivial change so be it, I think they're an asshole for insisting I change to suit them and or insisting that I actually meant something other than what I said. I refuse to play the game, I just won't do it, it is completely nonsensical to me.