@xuraax If such a shipping issue occurred the sender is responsible to refund you, and open a claim with DHL for THEIR refund of a lost item.
If they've responded via messages in Aliexpress indicating an issue with DHL.. First SCREENSHOT the messages and save for evidence. When expected delivery time expires, immediately open a dispute for refund for item not received. DO NOT close/resolve your dispute, no matter what they ask, beg or plead. You can only ever open a dispute once. Aliexpress will mediate an unresolved dispute and check the tracking. The refund will settle in your favor, provided you give them the screenshots and non-tracking DHL. A vendor will get shutdown if they get too many disputes against them.
Again, DO NOT EVER close your dispute once opened.. ever. or it will auto-settles in the vendor's favor if you are the one to close it. Keep the dispute open, until either they ship you the item, or aliexpress refunds you for non-delivery. The vendor doesn't get paid until you verify receipt, or delivery confirmation time expires.
There are scammy sellers on Aliexpress, especially for high value items.. Check their recent feedback for recent negatives.